The other day my friend told me, she decided to get back with her ex boy friends, after going to a wedding with him. (btw Happy for you:]) But how did that happen, it made me wonder. It made me realize, happiness comes with relativity. So what the hell does that mean? Basically it means that the mood of the general atmosphere can change the mood of others.
Simple example imagine going to a party, imagine everyone quiet at the party. How fun would that be? But now imagine rowdy people at the party. Because of those rowdy people, can you see yourself having fun already? Trust me this works even if you are the quietest person, because the happy feeling rubs off each other. And all it takes is a mood change to make something good or bad! (But choose wisely! haha)
Like my friends case. Although she was supposedly in an unhappy relationship before; but after seeing the happiness that the newly weds are bringing, it just changed the feeling! The relationship just makes sense and things just start to feel right again.
I view happiness as a form of pandemic; it spreads through peoples minds. It’s the feeling you want. You just need to let the happiness flow through you and your relationship. It is highly contagious!
So next time when you are having some rough patches with your girlfriend or boyfriend, why not bring her or him to a wedding or an art gallery; enjoy each other by being happy. Look at how other people enjoy their relationships. Sense their happiness. Let their happiness translate into your own happiness, forget about the unhappy it’s irrelevant. Have fun with each other again. Don’t be bitter that other people are happy in their relationship, because deep down inside you are too!
So seriously am I right or am I RIGHT? What do you think? Do you think you can share happiness? Do you think you can fix your relationship by feeling other people’s happiness?