During the weekend my friends and I decided it would be a wise idea to go bar hopping, so here we are in line trying to get in. But as we got to the front of the line we encountered a real problem, my buddy’s girl friend had lost her ID the night before. To make the night epic we decided why not sneak her in!! So I quickly collected everyone’s ID and showed it to the bouncer all at once, while he was busy checking the IDs I was trying to divert his attention even more by asking him question after question. As soon as the bouncer looked away my buddy sneakily grabbed his girlfriend and walked in without hesitation (Props to them btw)! So after the epic sneak in, I decided to take a short bathroom break! But by the time I was done I couldn’t find my friends (wtf since the bar was super small, but i guess it was pretty packed )… I ended up going to the patio area, since it’s always been my favorite area to meet girls! When you are at the patio area there isn’t music, it’s easier to meet girls, because you want to talk to someone (not to mention they can actually hear you)! But it turns out luck was not on my side this weekend; I was choking on all my conversations. The conversation starters were so boring and dry; even I wouldn’t want to talk to myself (Yes, choking does happen to everyone… I think)! Eventually, after chocking on a few girls I accepted the fact that it just wasn’t my day!
And as we were leaving the bar I smiled at some hot random girl standing next to the entrance. She smiled back and asked:
Rrandom girl: Hey, you want to slap my ass?
Me: Okay…(Thinking: WTF? haha)
Random girl: (lifts up her skirt!)
Me: (More WTF…)
Me: boom!
Random girl: Giggles!
And while I was wondering if I should talk to her, my friend’s girl friend quickly pulled me a side to keep me out of trouble! (It was a good decision… )
And yes, I guess my night was pretty crazy and action packed after all! But how did this happen? From choking on conversations all the way to slapping some hot girls’ ass! Not to mention I didn’t even have to do anything… The girl came over to me with an open invitation!
First, obviously alcohol were involved, but I know we were both pretty sober. Alcohol is good for easing tension and shyness; but it was definitely not the biggest factor here! So I realized a nice warm smile goes a long way, sometimes a smile is better then any pick up line or conversation starters. Just smile and if the other person smiles back or in my case asked me to slap her ass that means she is interested. Being able to give clear body languages seems to be another way to show off your charm and confidence! It’s a nice way to start flirting or to talk to someone!
Here are a few body languages to break the ice:
- Warm smile – Not the fake smile you do while you are brushing your teeth!
- Eye contact – exchange of eye contact, ogling.
Here are a few body languages after breaking the ice
- Eye contact – Look straight into the other person’s eye when you talk to them.
- Hold their hand – Walking through the dance floor while holding their hand! If they didn’t try to shake it off chances are good for you!
So what do you think? What kind of body languages are helpful and clear to read and give? Please comment on the post and share your own body language tricks!